The Invisible Mother *Must Read*

Thursday, July 18, 2013
Heather

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It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I’m on the phone and ask to be taken to the store. Inside I’m thinking, ‘Can’t you see I’m on the phone?’

Obviously not; no one can see if I’m on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all. I’m invisible. The invisible Mom. Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more! Can you fix this? Can you tie this? Can you open this?? 

Some days I’m not a pair of hands; I’m not even a human being. I’m a clock to ask, ‘What time is it?’ I’m a satellite guide to answer, ‘What number is the Disney Channel?’ I’m a car to order, ‘Right around 5:30, please.’

Some days I’m a crystal ball; ‘Where’s my other sock? Where’s my phone?, What’s for dinner?’

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history, music and literature -but now, they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She’s going, she’s going, and she’s gone!

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England . She had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when she turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, ‘I brought you this.’ It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe. I wasn’t exactly sure why she’d given it to me until I read her inscription: ‘With admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees.’

In the days ahead I would read – no, devour – the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work: 1) No one can say who built the great cathedrals – we have no record of their names. 2) These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. 3) They made great sacrifices and expected no credit. 4) The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything. 

A story of legend in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, ‘Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof, No one will ever see it And the workman replied, ‘Because God sees.’ 

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was Almost as if I heard God whispering to me, ‘I see you. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does.
No act of kindness you’ve done, no sequin you’ve sewn on, no cupcake you’ve baked, no Cub Scout meeting, no last minute errand is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can’t see right now what it will become.

I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on. The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree. 

When I really think about it, I don’t want my son to tell the friend he’s bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, ‘My Mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for 3 hours and presses all the linens for the table.’ That would mean I’d built a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, he’d say, ‘You’re gonna love it there…’ 

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we’re doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible mothers.

—Mary Lynn Plaisance

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Happy Father's Day! The Hours of Fatherhood (my video!)

Sunday, June 16, 2013
Heather

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I hope everyone had a great Father's day! I didn't get to see my dad today (he was working) but I want him to know that I love him very much!

I also wanted to share with you this video that my kiddos and I made for my husband.

Please keep in mind that this is the first video like this that I have ever made. Smile

I feel truly blessed that our beautiful babies have such a wonderful father.

I hope you enjoy it!

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It's Nice To Be Home!

Sunday, May 26, 2013
Heather

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I really miss Florida, but I have to say it's nice to be home. Today we just relaxed and my baby girl planted flowers in the garden.

We have a little bit of a cool breeze today in Utah and it makes it so nice to just sit outside and chill.

Hope you are having a great Sunday relaxing with your family! Smile

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Kids Day Out!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Heather

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Fall is by far my favorite time of the year. I love the crisp air, the leaves falling and all the fun fall activities!

So I am taking today to show my kiddos how awesome fall is!

I think it is essential every now and then to drop everything you are doing and have a day completely dedicated to kids.

I will be back to blogging first thing in the morning. Smile See you then!

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Corn on the Cob Or... Banana?

Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Heather

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Like most little kids (I'm hoping Laughing) my little girl has some strange eating quirks!

She recently told me to stop cutting up her banana, because she wanted to start eating it like a big girl.

And apparently that means eating it like corn on the cob!

She will grab the whole banana and start from one side and go to the other till it's all gone.

I'm not sure where she got this from, but it is really funny to watch!

Does your child have any weird little quirks like this?

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We are a family of four that left it all behind to go travel the world. No, literally we left it all. We sold all of our possessions, packed what we could into four suitcases and said goodbye to suburban life. All we own is now pulled behind us as we travel to new and exciting destinations. Showing our kids the world and teaching them about new cultures, food, and ways of life is now our 9-5.

We love watching our kids learn, and learning along side them. Together we have now explored many new countries, visited family on the other side of the world, and made memories that will last a lifetime.

Welcome to our journey!